He won't talk to me, now what?

I was dating this guy for close to two months. We had a connection, I thought. Well, while dating, I told him that my ex- husband, who said he filed for divorce and that it was final … after I filled out paperwork…, now tells me that we are still married and had hopes I would change my mind in the future. So, that he never submitted paperwork that we signed. I am horrified and I explained the situation to the guy. He was shocked… he looked very upset. Then came the issue of what he was feeling. He said we were fine. I went away to London, for one week, for a planned vacation I made 6 months ago. I come back to him telling me on the phone that we should be friends. That yes, the divorce was a small issue for him but we need to focus on being friends because it’s bad timing for him right now. He stated that between him selling his condominium and moving to a rental… until he find a home to buy has been extremely frustrating and overwhelming for him. I tried and tried to convince him all this weekend through text... to please reconsider and we should meet to talk about things. And if after meeting he still feels this way that I have no choice but to respect it. Well, he kept blowing me off that he’ll call me and we’ll see. Until finally, he said yesterday he’s not interested in meeting and I need to respect his decision. Well, I am completely hurt! I went back on to the online dating to find that after weeks he wasn’t on… he recently went on! That was another stab to my heart. How should I approach this??